Just to be clear, and I know I have said this before, but I actually do enjoy engaging with you. At least most of the time. I like having my views and assumptions challenged, and I usually walk away from our sparring matches feeling more informed, and more clear about what my positions actually are. It’s good to disagree, assuming we can still maintain some degree of mutual understanding and shared reality between us while disagreeing.
However, I think you often do a disservice to your own standing, which then places an air of suspicion around your comments. You have proven yourself capable of having robust discussions about a number of topics in the past, and of course you are allowed to hold your own views and perspectives. But here are a few patterns I often see you falling into:
- Resorting to juvenile name-calling and common troll theatrics (“Sleepy Joe”, “Let’s go Brandon”, etc.) These are not mature ways to have political discussions, they are low resolution memes intended only to inflame and instigate on an emotional level. This is the stuff of 4chan, not worthy of Integral Life.
- Making sweeping generalizations about Integral as a whole, its staff, and its audience — often very purposely exaggerated and generalizations (“Maoist”, “collectivist”, “socialist”, etc.)
- Twisting the words of other commenters, myself included, and hyperbolizing them as a series of straw men to argue against.
- Trying to frame many/most discussions in narrow partisan “anti-left” terms, preventing genuine post-ideological discussions from emerging.
I think many of the arguments you make have an important core of truth to them, but that core gets easily lost in the fog produced by these sorts of patterns. I myself find it frustrating whenever I am actively trying to find some way to agree with your point of view, and recognize the partial-but-important truths that you present, but rarely feel like you are making the same effort to recognize the partial-but-important truths that I and others are trying to present to you. (I will say, I think you’ve done better at this in recent weeks, though it seems to toggle on and off depending on the day’s discussion.)
Which is one of the reasons you often see me trying to retranslate our conversations into the language of polarity, as that framework helps remind us that there are always two poles we need to manage and attend to (e.g. agency and communion, or individual and collective, or interior and exterior, etc.), that all the stages leading up to integral (and the ideologies produced by those stages) tend have a strong preference for only one out of these two poles, and that if our society moves too far in the direction of any given pole at the exclusion of the other, we create all sorts of new shadows and pathologies. It’s a framework that offers us the greatest possible clarity, invites the greatest number of perspectives to the table, creates the maximum amount of possible buy-in, and generates the greatest amount of good faith interactions between those perspectives. At least as far as I can tell. So let’s leverage that framework whenever possible.
The other advantage of using the polarities framework, of course, is that it also helps show us when our arguments are based on comparing the negative qualities of one pole, to the positive qualities of another pole, which is how the vast majority of political discourse is being handled these days. We can do better, I think.
Now, I also understand that political conversations are tough, because while we think we are speaking purely in 3rd-person terms, we are actually smuggling in many of our own 1st-person identities that we’ve wrapped around these political ideas (e.g. “I am a Republican” or “I am a Democrat” or even “I am post-ideological”). So the invitation here, as always, is to try to make an object out of those subjective identities, so that we can set the identity piece aside (and all the defenses that come with it) while we try to better enfold with each other’s point of view. This to me feels more aligned with the integral spirit of nonexclusion — where we can take the very best perspectives available us, and pull them together into a more coherent and comprehensive understanding of the exceptionally complex reality we find ourselves in, while also remembering that none of us individually can have a full grasp on that staggering complexity.
All of which is to say, let’s do better together.