Your reply raises many interesting points.
I will try not to feel responsible when you seem to misinterpret me. I see still value in your misinterpretations for the possibility that they make me aware of my shadow elements. I will let you know when I think you have spotted any. When I do take sides, I already know I have a bias toward the one that I find is the most marginalized by the dominant culture. It is a shadow issue, not always useful. But that is not all that is going on here, especially not on the terrorism issue. I hope someone can agree that, because of the fact that I have never voted in a US election, I have at least the potential to be less biased than the people who did vote for one of the 2 candidates in the last elections. That is at least what I try.
If I understand you correctly, you think Alexa brought up BLM to distract people from the topic of the Capitol. (And you also didn’t agree about the way BLM was mentioned in the podcast.) There are other possible motives why she or others could bring this up. My guess is that she brought this up because she thinks that some people here have a strong bias toward the Trump supporters involved. She addressed you because you used the loaded word “terrorism”. She challenged you to explain what the essential differences are between the two cases in the hope that by doing so or refusing to do so you would show or realize how big your bias was.
I admit I could be way off here. But I know for a fact that she is aware that there are different narratives for both the BLM riots and the Captitol and she is obviously also aware that people are selective and biased, which are both important points that you feel you have to keep repeating. Furthermore I see nobody on the forum make the argument here that these 2 events are “the same thing”, maybe this is another straw man.
This brings me to another interesting point for this topic raised by your rhetorical question, which touches the topic of censorship:
I will assume you know that these labels are not supposed to be used to judge people but their worldviews and I will just add that I don’t find enough information on this forum to conclude what perspectives Alexa is able to take. I think this could also be relevant for what happened between isabel and sandraworth on this topic (“Seek help dear Isabel”).
I like to rephrase the question a little to
"So, how do I address people that according to my own (fallible) judgement are centered at amber / red [or toxic green] on this integral forum?"
I would suggest to let our experience in the real world not guide us too much. I would assume that people who come here have a strong desire to grow and learn, which is not always the case in the real world. My own instinct would be to go for the healthy green approach "listening with compassion, respecting everyone’s opinions ". If this would not be working I would probably try another approach. I find that corey-devos has already thought well about this and that the community road rules are really great, just a bit long to read ;-). So I would follow them closely. Please let me know if I didn’t live up to them. Thanks for letting me understand what you were trying to do with your last post to Alexa: [addressing falsehoods directly and sternly / confront ignorant ideas]. That does explain your reaction about anarchy. But that doesn’t explain the 2 straw man arguments. And I still don’t know what you hoped to achieve regarding Alexa.
That video you linked to was very horrible, I see a lot of red anger. By the way, I have never said that I knew everything that happened there. And I also don’t think that anyone on this forum is taking the single narrative “They were invited in.” I hope I explained my view here well, as you have guessed English is not my first language. You can ask me a question if something is still not clear.