Slow AI movement

I want AI to succeed for me and us in my/our future. As my consciousness intersects with AI, I do not want it to outstrip me.

With all of the fear of AI, is there a current AI chat interface for what we want it to as we come to life through it?

I’d like to ask / train an AI about its basic behaviors in my life and our lives and future, such as how it would respond to my life as I/we grow sentient together.

We need new ways of talking about this that isn’t fear based.