@raybennett Who you talking to, or about, Ray? Thereâs only been a handful of us here the last few weeks or months. I do appreciate the topic in that I spent a large part of the afternoon working with someone to help him integrate his own fierceness and compassion. Isnât that synchronistic? And, proof perfect that some of this kind of work goes on off-siteâŚ
Fierceness has a number of definitions: intense or ferocious aggressiveness (âthe tiger is a fierce predatorâ); powerful and destructive (âfierce storms lashed the countryâ); showing a heartfelt and powerful intensity (âhe kissed her with a fierce demanding passionâ); fashionable and attractive in a bold or striking way (âthe actress looked as fierce as everâ). Are you wanting more of us to be tigers, storms, passionate kissers, or fashion-forward actors? Just joking, lol; I do get your gist.
Bear with me as I again use a little yogic information to address some of your comments. In yoga philosophy, people are said to be born with a natural proclivity towards one of three âgunasâ or âstates of natureâ: tamas (inertia, heaviness), rajas (action-oriented, passion/desire), and sattva (harmonious, âlightâ). While (again in yoga philosophy) people can transform their state through intentional practices, these are natural states, inherent tendencies/ways of being that people are born with and most continue with throughout life. So following this train of thought, not everyone has a proclivity towards fierceness or any kind of activism, and I think we have to allow for that.
Secondly, while I appreciate what the articles you linked to and the video are pointing out, and I do get the gist of your post, and therefore may be sidetracking here a little bit, but since I havenât posted in a while, Iâm going to indulge myself to say itâs a bit of pet peeve of mine that fierceness is the primary trait usually referenced in regard to warriors. There are many others that are important: strategizing, perseverance, self-control, discipline, humility, use of a strong and skillful and good will, forbearance, equanimity, adaptiveness, sobriety, acute senses, listening and communication skills, trustworthiness, able to be solitary as well as a team member, a certain amount of detachment or emptiness even, a desire to protect and serve, etc. The old tradition in many American Indian tribes is that the greatest warriors became Chiefs, leaders of the people, whether or not they continued in battles. And their becoming Chiefs was due to more than their fierceness.
And speaking of communication skills and in alignment with the references to Buddhism, I believe the Buddha spoke of four criteria for determining what is âright speechââis it true? is it correct (appropriate manner)? is it beneficial? is it timely? Not bad criteria.
I would also say, continuing along the Buddhism line and hopefully contributing something useful to your post, that both of those articles you linked to, while having some great points, could have benefitted by mentioning the Buddhist fierceness in Myanmar responsible for the deaths of many Rohingya and making refugees out of countless others. Granted, I doubt many of these Buddhists were/are bodhisattvas, but still, an example of Buddhism in its full amber-mythic glory. Like Hinduism in its amber-mythic glory also oppressing Muslims in India in its nationalism fervor. As the Dalai Lama says, there are two kinds of angerâone that is born of compassion and desire to protect others or serve justice, and another kind that is motivated by an inner hatred towards another, which often leads to destruction.
Finally, just a few words about the âimpotenceâ of Integralism in addressing the planetary and species crises. Just think back to when you first started participating here at ILC, or when you first became aware of IT. Have you learned anything? Has what you learned helped you or made you more helpful to others? Iâve never thought of Integral as a âsaving graceââwell, thatâs not entirely true, I did years ago. But Iâve grown up a bit, and now see it as a rather organic step in humanityâs evolution. Whether it ever reaches a âtipping pointâ and emerges as a full-blown stage of development fully âpopulatedâ and widely recognized, well, I donât know. But I donât see Integral has having to or needing to carry either the burden or the bliss of achieving world transformation. For those who have ears and eyesâŚsomething like thatâŚit will, I think, be a gateway to a kind of clarity that I for one havenât found anywhere else.
Thanks for your post! I appreciate your honesty and sharing, even as I sit here wondering a little bitâis he talking about me?!? Itâs a great teaching, the integration of fierceness and compassion.