I mean, to be fair, some fetishes have more rights than others
Just kidding. The phrase “unborn fetish” struck me as funny. Reminds me of a line from one of my favorite TV shows, Community. “I hope this doesn’t awaken anything in me.”
I personally wish that sane people on the left and the right can recognize that we have fundamental agreement here, in terms of our shared goals — to make abortions both safe and rare. The issue as I see it, is that each side has taken their preferred slice of that goal and made it their primary issue. Conservatives only want to make it rare, progressives only want to make it safe (which includes making it available in the first place).
If we were to take a truly sober view of this, we would recognize that the very best way to make abortions “safe and rare” are for both sides to be willing to deal with some degree of compromise. For the left, their compromise should be that abortions are only allowed before fetal viability, while late-term abortions are reserved for medical issues only. And if modern science increases the window of viability, then further compromises probably need to be made.
For the right, their compromise should be accepting that the best way to lower the rate of abortions, is to provide more robust sex education to kids, as well as easy access to contraceptives. As I’ve said multiple times, here in Colorado we cut teenage pregnancies and abortions in half, largely through a free IUD program that was made available to young women. Progressives were accomplishing conservative goals of making abortions more rare. However, this was later upturned by conservatives in the state, who insist that “abstinence-only” preventions should be taken to solve this problem, that sex education and contraceptives only lead to more promiscuity, and therefore are only willing to implement solutions that reinforce women’s chastity.
At which point, the progressives scratch their heads and wonder, “what is your actual goal here, to reduce the total number of abortions, or to control what women do with their bodies?” And suddenly, the culture war erupts once again. The left digs back in, the right digs back in, and now we have lost our original shared goal of making abortions “safe and rare”.
It’s a real conundrum, and I really do think our concepts of “bodily autonomy” should be paramount, for conservatives and progressives and libertarians alike. Otherwise, we admit that we exist in a system that affords men 100% of their own bodily autonomy, while women’s bodily autonomy is limited to her biological functions. And I don’t think “women are biologically unfit to have full autonomy over their bodies” is an argument that flies very far in 2022
Which is why I continue to think Ken’s holonic frame is so important here. We need to be able to recognize that there are stages of pregnancy where the fetus is more a part of the woman’s own body, and therefore subject to her own autonomy, and that the fetus becomes more of a genuine individual holon as it approaches viability. And once it does, it becomes deserving of all the rights we extend to individuals. But every one of us begins as a literal part of our mother’s own body, until we individuate enough to possess our own wholeness.