Humans, confined as we are by the “human condition”, are over-dependent on examples to inform us of what’s possible. It’s why imitation is so important in psychology and culture. Examples are vital to how we interpret the world.
The only examples that we have, with evidence that they work, are derived from earth-bound experiences and history. If we could only bear witness to the sorts of examples that have played out in other cultures, on other planets. Of course, we never ever will. The distances are too ridiculously unreachable.
First step is to radically revise our assumptions about the prevalence of life throughout the universe. If we persist with the parochial reductionism assuming that Planet Earth is among the rare exceptions in the universe into which an “advanced” civilization has stumbled, by fortuitous evolutionary dumb luck, then we will miss a most vital insight. We should reverse our assumptions, and make the living universe our null hypothesis (H0). As it is over here, so too, it is over there… the law of entropy requires it, it’s only logical and sensible to assume that this is a living universe. As for any eccentrics persisting with the myth that we are alone in the universe, the onus should be on them to prove the alternative hypothesis (H1).
So, given that the universe is abundant with life, anywhere where the conditions are right, with every manner of culture spanning the breadth of permutations across heaven and hell, then the possibilities that you might like to consider go well beyond “communities that do exactly what I want in the world”. Some of us are done with our Clown Cultures defining what constitutes acceptable conduct. Imitating examples from shithole culture can only ever provide us with more of the same.
Instead of looking to our broken, earthbound history for examples, we should be looking to invent our own. This is, ultimately, a spiritual objective. Instead of asking “whom should I imitate?”, we’d be better served to ask “what might I become?”